Suzie A.
1/5
Extremely Disappointing Experience at Stanford Hospital
My recent experience at Stanford Hospital on 1/10/2025 was extremely frustrating and disappointing, particularly in the ER and post-surgery unit. While the medical care itself may have been satisfactory, the behavior of some staff members was completely unprofessional and unacceptable.
Guest Service in the ER:
When I arrived at 3:30 AM via ambulance with my father, I was directed to speak with a guest service representative in the ER. I was on the phone at the time, which made it difficult to hear her, but I was trying my best to focus on asking the necessary registration questions. Instead of offering helpful or clear answers, she was whispering things that I couldnāt understand and seemed irritated by my questions. Her behavior was dismissive and unprofessional. also her tag name was not clear to see her name.
I then sat in the ER waiting area for more than 30 minutes, waiting for someone to call me to go see my father. After another hour of waiting without any updates, I approached the guest service desk to inquire about how much longer it would take. To my shock, the guest service representative, telling me that I should have come to her earlier to ask for permission to see my dad. She treated me like I had done something wrong by simply waiting for someone to call me.
When I explained that I was talking to a nurse earlier and waiting for my turn, she was incredibly rude, dismissive, and condescending. She gave me no sense of empathy or professionalism and made me feel as though I was bothering her. After I gave her my fatherās last name, she finally allowed me to go to his room.
This person was clearly not suited for a guest services role, especially in a hospital setting. Stanford Hospital should retrain their staff on how to handle patients' families with the care, respect, and courtesy they deserve, especially in such a stressful and emotional environment.
Nurse Behavior in the Post-Surgery Unit:
The issues didnāt end with guest services. In the post-surgery unit, the behavior of several nurses was also concerning. One nurse, who was not even assigned to my fatherās care, repeatedly came into the room and closed my fatherās curtain and door without asking us. Given my fatherās condition (non-verbal, unconscious, with a tracheotomy), the door needed to stay open so that nurse could hear him if he needed assistance. We also needed airflow in the room as it was poorly ventilated.
I understand that staff may need privacy to carry out their duties, but nurses should always ask family members whether they are comfortable with the door or curtain being closedāespecially in critical situations where the patientās safety and familyās ability to monitor him are a priority. After having to repeatedly open the door, I became frustrated by the lack of consideration for both patient and family needs.
Conclusion:
Overall, my experience at Stanford Hospital was deeply disappointing. The behavior of the guest service representative in the ER and several nurses in the post-surgery unit was unprofessional, dismissive, and inconsiderate. As a hospital that prides itself on being one of the best, it is unacceptable that staff treat families this way. I sincerely hope that Stanford Hospital takes this feedback seriously and re-trains staff to improve communication, empathy, and respect for both patients and their families.